1 thought on “Yaba Left: Courtesy Stigma and Complimentary Kebabs by Dami Ajayi

  1. Good day sir. I hope this message finds you well.
    I have been reflecting deeply on my growth as a young writer and journalist, especially on what it truly means to tell stories responsibly. Recently, I read Dami Ajayi’s essay “Yaba Left: Courtesy Stigma and Complimentary Kebabs,” and it stayed with me longer than I expected—not because of its elegance alone, but because of the quiet honesty with which it confronted stigma, irony, and human distance.
    What struck me most was how society often learns to live comfortably around suffering without ever truly engaging with it. The essay reminded me that good storytelling is not always about speaking loudly, but about observing carefully and listening with intention. It made me realise that journalism, at its best, is an act of attention—paying respect to people, places, and experiences that are often ignored or misunderstood.
    As I continue to learn, I am consciously trying to slow down: to ask better questions, to approach people with humility, and to let their voices lead rather than my assumptions. I am beginning to understand that credibility is not earned through urgency or visibility alone, but through consistency, empathy, and discipline.
    This reflection is part of my effort to grow steadily—both in craft and in character. I am grateful for the guidance I have received so far and for the examples set by professionals like you, whose work reminds young writers like me that depth matters.
    Thank you very much for your time and for the quiet inspiration your work provides.
    Warm regards,
    Eze Anthony

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